People's Behaviour...

sometimes i am unable to understand the behaviour of humans...however you try ...it still remains such a mystery....you try transactional analysis (TA), psychology studies...one cannot just understand the other side..

The inability or failure hits you so hard especially in a situation when relatives or close friends are involved...however efforts you make to built life for good future...everything goes in vain...
It is really puzzling besides hurting (on hurt i will post later) when People show such rude and arrogance....The great Thiruvalluvar has written many many centuries ago...that all the sins of the world has pardon but there is no pardon for the people who forgets and not having any gratitude...

the word "gratitude" is very important in one's life....the power of gratitude is very mighty and simple gratitude alone can take the people to great heights in life.....All types of arrogance is pardonable except money arrogance...when you show arrogance of money....it is just you are trying to satisfy your ego and jealousy and nothing else...but it is slowly becoming a way of living in style and catching up the young generation....

Today i was very much disturbed with all this behavioural patterns of people...because this is nothing but a path of self destruction.......i am thinking where do i stand ...but fortunately i am always in the company of good people and god grace...

one of my friend Mr.Ravishankar from Zambia has sent such a nice mail ....which really gave a fitting answer to all my thoughts...the message is given below..

***Be Humble
-C.B.Satpathy

God sees things by the whole. Man sees things by parts. God sees happenings over the three periods of time. Man sees events only in the present, isolated from the past and the future. That is why man sees discord here God sees harmony. Man sees lack of logic where God finds perfect logic. Put yourself in the place of God. Feel you are God. Feel that the entire universe is your creation and operates by your will. At once you will feel tremendous peace and strength surging within you. You say others insult you without reason, injure you without cause. Even if that is true, do not get agitated. Face the situation calmly. You will find that calmness can be a powerful weapon to overcome difficult situations. Shut your eyes to insults. Let others think what they like, say what they like. This is a world of ignorant people. You be wise. Be humble before everybody. Be humble in every situation. This will be possible if you give up the idea of inferiority and superiority and learn to see God in everybody and everything "God wills it so. So be it.": Say that to yourself and keep quiet in the face of insults. Be unruffled. If you put up with insults, you will grow in humility and purity. You will grow spiritually rich. ***

Finally i remember the words of saibaba....
""Without the sanction of the Lord, man cannot achieve anything in the world. The Divine is the basis for everything. Man, however, is filled with conceit that he is the one who is doing everything. This pride is the cause of his ruin. It is the cause of his frustration and disappointment. Man today is basing his life on nature and hence forgetting God. This is a grievous mistake. You must place your faith in God, the Creator of the universe, and then enjoy what nature provides. Faith in God is the primary requisite for man.""

Amen